This topic is really very sensitive but I can’t seem to help it and I have to touch about this topic. Maybe I might be wrong, but isn’t this blog all about my opinion. I mean, if you don’t like it, you can comment. And if you agree, why not also comment about it?
Yes, I shouldn’t really be a bad boy to talk about it, just that the sentence “I eat salt more than you eat rice” seems to piss me off a lot. I mean, I know you gone through life, and I know you know more than me, but that’s what you know about the past. Past aren’t equals to Future, hence everyone should be constantly learning right? Experience doesn’t make you have really a right stand to say anything or lecture us. Yes, experience is important, I never deny, but your experience in the past might not be the same as the experience we youngsters are experiencing.
Take fashion as an example, does the fashion in the olden days equals to the fashion to our youngsters generation? I think we both know the answer.
What im trying to say, im not trying to say that we shouldn’t listen to our parents, but actually we should absorb it and explain it back to them. If they eat salt more than we eat rice, they must be having hypertension now ( well im just joking. ) What I am stating is that, sometimes things really changes…
Im not pin pointing at all parents but most are the same. Did you stop and listen to your children? Or did you shrug them off and continue with your work. If you did that, then it will be same when the children grow up. Then they start blaming about it, isn’t it VERY unreasonable?
Doesn’t mean that you are an adult means you know everything and what you say are right.
Aren’t you also affected by the society?
Aren’t you also affected by the newspaper and television?
Aren’t you also affected by your friends who constantly gossip?
If you are listening to all these, then what makes you have the experience? I thought experience is what you EXPERIENCED, since the word came from there.
Taking for example in relationship, If you know that one party found another party and they are fated, they went through a lot before meeting each other, Why not let them be together as in… just believe that they will last? If your child has found their happiness and feels xin fu, why not just grant them the wish?
You might say, im just a teenager, I still don’t know about the world. But why do we even want to know so much, why cant we just simply believe? Why do we always need evidence for things?
And things also got worse with people who thinks they know a lot and want to have a say in anything. Don’t they know they will just make things worst? I feel that just keep it to yourself, isn’t it better?
Talking about troubles and stuff really bores you out right? Actually, all people want I guess are just Praise.
It’s difficult for people to praise one another right? But everyone just want to get praise sometimes. A little praise will not hurt right? However it seems that giving children or anybody else some praise does seem that it will kill one person. You just ask yourself, when was the last time you gave praise to somebody.
Long ago right?
I know everyone’s not perfect, but shouldn’t we just ignore our experience for awhile and be a kid, and learn all the knowledge that are there? And even if we learn the knowledge, we shouldn’t use it to say people off
EVERYONE’S LIFE ISN’T THE SAME RIGHT?
So, why try to change someone life with your experience?
Just leave it be, everyone just want their own life, Not a Controlled and suffering life. If your children is suffering, why not just take one step back, and just believe?
Not all people are bad, Just let them lead……..
Their own LIFE.
